ADC controversy has American Arab community on edge

ADC controversy has American Arab community on edge

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ADC controversy has American Arab community on edge

Saudi Gazette, Sunday November 17, 2013

By RAY HANANIA

ImadHamadEmotion often gets in the way of achievement in the American Arab community. You can’t seem to have a discussion without everyone screaming, yelling and calling you harsh names. It doesn’t matter whether the topic is Middle East peace, two-states, or sexual harassment involving someone at an institution responsible for fighting for civil rights.

Apart from all of these controversies, there are also the deep political divisions that have carved the American Arab community into incoherent and inconsequential groups.

Last month, Michigan State Rep. Rashida Tlaib came out of the closet to accuse the Midwest Director of the American Arab Anti-Discrimination Committee, Imad Hamad, of sexually harassing her and other women.

It’s a painful battle for many reasons, but most troubling is how some extremists with ulterior motives have joined in, not to defend Tlaib or to oppose sexual harassment, but to destroy ADC, one of the strongest organizations in the American Arab community.

ADC has always been a target of these extremists. First, ADC is more closely aligned with the Gulf Arab countries that have donated to it generously. That’s a problem to the fanatics, most of whom support Syria’s tyrant Bashar Al-Assad.

The assault against Hamad gave them an excuse to urge ADC’s destruction, again. The extremists have transformed the Tlaib-Hamad controversy into a referendum on ADC, rather than a community-wide discussion about the problems of sexual harassment. By the way, sexual harassment is rampant in the American Arab community, especially among the religious fanatics.
I tried to address that point in a recent column, but Tlaib responded with these two public tweets on Twitter:

the investigation was sexual harassment of women in 2011-12. Get ur facts straight. Enough w the conspiracy theories

this is about a sexual predator not internal community politics. You all made it about that instead ofthe victims

Granted, Twitter’s 140-character limit makes it a terrible place to have real discussions, and it often becomes a bully pulpit for fanatics to defame, harass and bully.

No Rashida, I was not making it about politics instead of the victims. I was addressing both, analyzing how the accusations are being exploited by extremists who seek to destroy ADC.

ADC reviewed Tlaib’s charges but concluded that there just wasn’t enough evidence, other than accusations. Naturally, that upset her. The charges date back to 2007 when, Rashida claims, nothing was done. Four years later, more accusations were made, too.

Tlaib revealed she was also victimized 15 years ago, noting she regretted not speaking out publicly. I wish she had spoken out back then. Maybe that might have prevented the alleged incidents that followed. The truth is the American Arab community as a whole, not just ADC, closes its eyes to sexual harassment.

The fanatics don’t care about Tlaib or sexual harassment. Most of them are bullies and discriminate on the basis of religion and race, too. They only care about destroying ADC.

That doesn’t make Tlaib’s claims wrong. It doesn’t make them right, either. Yet Hamad’s reputation was raked over the coals with no chance to defend himself in a scene lifted from the movie “Lord of the Flies.”

I think Tlaib is a role model for our community, someone who has overcome the obstacles that plague the Arab community. She won elected office in a district that has few Arab voters in it. Maybe that’s why she won. Many Arab males won’t vote for a woman candidate for any office.

Tlaib is a moderate. The extremists, whose only qualifications are their ability to scream, yell, and stamp their feet the loudest, and to bully, would have worked against her.

Bullying is a problem in the American Arab community. We lack the institutional support systems that other ethnic minorities have to deal with the burdens of discrimination and victimization. As a consequence, when we are victimized, we do what most victims do and turn on ourselves.

When you can’t beat the problems, you turn on your own community, because it’s easier. It’s called the “Arab Syndrome.” The Arab community has embraced an activism that sometimes is self-destructive, and motivated mostly by jealousy, rivalry and envy.

That doesn’t mean, as Tlaib implies, that I, or others don’t care about the sexual harassment charges. I certainly do. But I think in all fairness that Hamad deserves the right to defend himself.

The same fanatics attacked me when I served on the national ADC board. They fabricated ridiculous accusations and lies. Why? Because I expressed an opinion that Palestinians should accept compromise and stop lying to the refugees, telling them falsely that one day they will be able to return to their homes and lands. I think we should take them out of the squalor of the refugee camps and rebuild their lives in a Palestinian State that is free. They hate me even more because I am Christian, my wife is Jewish, and I oppose the Syrian dictatorship. I am not afraid to speak out against them.

As a result of the accusations, Hamad was suspended from what became, under his leadership, the most successful ADC Chapter in America. Maybe his style was a little rough, sometimes, but what American Arab leader or activist is any better? Hamad had a track record of success.

The issue of sexual harassment should be lifted off of ADC’s shoulders and adjudicated in a court of law. Fairness, not retribution, should be the goal. People are supposed to be innocent until proven guilty.

Ironically, in the post Sept. 11 America, Arabs are guilty until proven innocent. It seems that is also the case in the American Arab community.

– Ray Hanania is an award winning columnist and veteran political writer. He can be reached at www.TheMediaOasis.com or follow him on Twitter @RayHanania

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Ray Hanania

Ray Hanania is an award winning former Chicago City Hall reporter and Columnist who began writing in 1975 when he published The Middle Eastern Voice newspaper in Chicago (1975-1977). He covered Chicago City Hall from 1976 through 1992 (Mayor Daley to Mayor Daley) and has expanded to writing for newspapers around the world focussed on Middle East and American politics.

Hanania loves to write about American Arabs in politics, and focuses on Arab life in America.

Currently, he writes weekly columns on Middle East and American Arab issues for the Arab News in Saudi Arabia at www.ArabNews.com. He writes on American politics for the Des Plaines Valley News, Southwest News-Herald, The Regional News newspaper and the Reporter Newspapers. He also writes for the online websites TheArabDailyNews.com and NewsAmericaNetwork.com (Illinois News Network at IllinoisNewsNetwork.com).

Palestinian, American Arab and Christian, Hanania’s parents originate from Jerusalem and Bethlehem. Hanania began in journalism as an activist publishing Chicago’s first English-language American Arab Newspaper “The Middle Eastern Voice” from 1975 through 1977. In 1976, he was hired by the Chicago community newspaper The Southtown Economist (Daily Southtown) and in 1985 was hired by the Chicago Sun-Times and covered Chicago City Hall for both. In 1993, he launched the “The Villager” Newspapers which covered 12 Southwest Chicagoland suburban regions. In 2004, he published “The National Arab American Times” monthly newspaper which was distributed through 12,500 Middle East ethnic food stores in 48 American States.

Hanania is the recipient of four (4) Chicago Headline Club “Peter Lisagor Awards” for Column writing. In November 2006, he was named “Best Ethnic American Columnist” by the New American Media;In 2009, he received the prestigious Sigma Delta Chi Award for Writing from the Society of Professional Journalists. He is the recipient of the MT Mehdi Courage in Journalism Award. Hanania has also received two (2) Chicago Stick-o-Type awards from the Chicago Newspaper Guild, and in 1990 was nominated by the Chicago Sun-Times for a Pulitzer Prize for his four-part series on the Palestinian Intifada.

Hanania’s writings have been published in newspapers around the world. Formerly syndicated by Creators Syndicate, Hanania also has written news, features and Opinion Columns for Al Jazeera English, the Jerusalem Post, YNetNews.com, Arab News, Saudi Gazette, Newsday in New York, the Orlando Sentinel, the Houston Chronicle, The Daily Star, the News of the World, the Daily Yomimuri in Tokyo, Chicago Magazine, the Arlington Heights Daily Herald, and Aramco Magazine. His political columns are published in the Southwest News-Herald and Des Plaines Valley News, Regional News and Palos Reporter newspapers in Chicagoland. Hanania is the President/CEO of Urban Strategies Group media and public affairs consulting which has clients in Illinois, Florida, Michigan and Washington D.C.

Hanania is Palestinian Christian from prominent Bethlehem and Jerusalem families. His wife and son are Jewish and he performs standup comedy lampooning Arab-Jewish relations, advocating for peace based on non-violence, mutual recognition and Two-States.

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